Early last month while at the dentist, I was enjoying the usual chit chat with the hygienist as she cleaned my teeth. One statement she made struck me as a bit odd, she told me she assumed since my daughter was only 2 months old that we wouldn’t be going on a vacation this summer. I was quick to inform her we were leaving the following day and headed to Florida on vacation. Her obvious shock was surprising to me because it hadn’t even occurred to me to put off a family vacation this year just because we would have an infant in tow. It made me wonder if not vacationing is something people did until their kids were older.
Since we’ve always traveled with our dogs (mostly because we hate being away from them but partially because they’re snub nosed and can’t fly), we’re accustomed to researching locations to suit the needs of our specific situation. Now, I’ll admit that traveling with children is a bit more challenging than traveling with pets but I assure you it can be done with proper planning.
By following these tips, parents of young children can still enjoy a family vacation with minimal issues.
- Choose a location within driving distance. Interpretations of driving distance may vary but if it’s too far for you to drive and you’re considering flying, do yourself a favor and wait until your children are older. Controlling a child, especially more than one is increasingly more difficult and stressful when you’re in a confined space with strangers.
- Depending on the distance, begin driving to your destination at your child’s bedtime. Infants and toddlers alike will be less cranky if their sleep isn’t disturbed and the added bonus is you’ll be gaining extra daylight (presumably) to spend at your final destination…provided you’re able to stay awake.
- Avoid hotels and instead choose a private vacation home rental. I can’t stress enough how important having all of the comforts of home is when traveling with kids and pets. Not only does having space to spread out and play help a child settle into a new routine but having a kitchen can help you save money by eating in.
- Don’t try to do too much. Narrow down your must see/must do items and spread them out throughout your stay. Attempting to squeeze too many activities into a day is only going to result in a frustrated parent and an unhappy child.
- Loosely follow your usual routine. Kids crave structure and will behave better when they are on a schedule. Of course be somewhat flexible while you’re on vacation but allowing a toddler to stay up until midnight and sleep until noon might be hard to reverse when you get back home.
What are your tips for traveling with small children?